“YOU WERE GIVEN
THIS LIFE BECAUSE YOU ARE STRONG ENOUGH TO LIVE IT.”
NEWS FLASH people,
I am currently in a relationship. My first relationship in my entire life. And
let me tell you it wasn’t as easy as I thought it was supposed to be. I am
trying to make it easy, by taking it easy, but it is still work. I thought that
relationship comes natural when a guy and girl start dating, sparks fly and
boom, they love each other. This is what was feed to me through movies and hopeless
romantic books. Books never tell us that
we should know the other person and try to make him/her happy. They just tell
us that love it good and love it great, which I am pretty sure is true, but
still it ain’t as easy as I thought it would be.
At the beginning I
was thinking that it is not easy because we were not meant to be, but after
asking around and trying to dig deeper in the relationship thing. I found out
that this is completely natural and this is the beginning of the relationships
looks like. Everyone advised me to forget everything I learned about love from
books because if I kept waiting for this spark that I imagine it will be, it
will never appear. Once I stopped thinking about what should happen according
to what I know about love, I started to get better in this relationship thingy.
Aside from this deep,
long insight about my current love life, one of the hardest thing in the
relationship thing is dating and not everything about the date. It is just
choosing what to wear in a date. I am pretty sure that all women think of this
before they go to the date. I want to wear something feminine, but not to look
like Barbie doll. I want to look sexy, but not to look like I am trying to
hard. I want to look beautiful for my boyfriend without making my dad jealous
(if you are living with your dad, like me).
How much makeup should I put, is it too much? Or is too little? And the
circle of question keeps popping into my mind, all this just in choosing what
to wear.
So I decided to share
with you one of the outfit I wore to one of my dates and it was one of my
favorites, because A) I looked beautiful, B) My man thought I looked beautiful.
What I love the most about this outfit is that it is simple, feminine and
trendy. I also love the cold shoulder thing that the top has because I
discovered that men dig it. They think it is so sexy and of course we-girls-
want to look sexy for our men. The heels in my life is a necessity. I dig them,
so this mules are perfect for my style and they are totally comfortable,
something you need to feel when you are in a date is comfortable in your shoes,
otherwise it will be one of the worst dates you will ever have.
I hope you loved this
outfit and that it helped you in one way or another. Please leave in the
comment section below what was your favorite outfit you have ever wore on a
date.
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I wish you all the best for your relationship! If it's worth it all the work you put into it is worth it as well!
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Thanks sweetheart.
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