“DON’T EVER WORRY ABOUT THINGS THAT DON’T WORRY ABOUT YOU.”
Have you ever wanted to start something so bad, but always told
yourself you are not good enough for it? You know doubted yourself when you
could have been right about something? I do this all the time. My self-doubt is
like a demon inside of me eating my life day by day. And if I had to describe what the only thing
that is holding me back in life, it will be self-doubt.
So I wanted to find a way to kill my self-doubt and I really wanted
to share it with you guys, so if anyone is interested in getting rid of the
chain that holds her mind prisoner, please read down below the ways that I have
found to kill my self-doubt.
WRITE DOWN YOUR STRENGHT AND WEAKNESS I have read in an article that you should mediate and this will
help with your self-doubt and would make it go away, but here is the thing, I
suck at the mediating. I have no idea how people just stop their mind from
thinking or think about something that is not important. I always feel that my
mind keeps on working no matter what. So instead of mediating, I decided that
whenever I feel that I want to do something and I am starting to doubt myself,
that I will just write down my strength and weakness, so if this thing is in my
capabilities I will just go for it.
REMEMBER THAT FAILURE IS NOT THE END OF THE DAY we all have to remind ourselves that failure is not the end of the
day. So if you want to go for something go for it. If it fails then it fails,
but at least you got to try it and get experience out of it. I know that I was
so hesitant to start this blog and I feared that it will fail, but you know
what, I don’t really care how it turns out to be, I am doing what I love and
maybe some people will love it too.
TRY TO FIND GOOD OUT OF ANY SITUATION (POSITIVE AFFIRMATION) you know, I believe that there is something good that will come
even in bad situation, so how about something good coming from good situations.
It won’t just be something good, but it will be something great. If you want to
talk to someone and you are doubting yourself that you are not pretty enough,
just remember that you look good, you are funny, etc and not just remember it,
but say it out loud.
(I am pretty)
(I am smart)
(This dress is beautiful on me)
(I can do this, because I have trained well)
DO YOUR BEST once you do
your best. You will never doubt yourself. First because deep down in yourself
that you couldn’t have done a better job than what’s already done and second
your consciousness will be free. If you
are doubting yourself to start your own business, go with everything you have
and do the best damn job you can manage and you will find your business to be
flourishing from your work or your business won’t work, but you won’t be sad
because you have done the best you have could.
Whenever I face self-doubt in any situation I try to do those
things and it really lessen it a lot and sometimes I get even proud of myself.
I hope that these ways works with you and with me too. Also if
anyone has any other way that will help or something she use, please just leave
it in the comments down below.
I would really love to know what you think of this post in
the comments down below. Till next time, bye. .
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ReplyDeleteReally great tips. I have my moments of self doubt too and positive affirmations work really well for me. I noticed I tend to doubt myself more when people around me start to doubt me, so now whenever someone questions whether i can do something or not I make it my goal to prove them that I can.
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You know I think you are right, but I'll do it, because I am positive that if god gave me the idea then there is a possibility to achieve it.
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