“THEY ARE NOT YOUR
FRIENDS UNTILL THEY DEFEND YOU IN YOUR ABSENCE.”
At first I thought
that in relationship you need to say everything that pops in your mind and if
you can’t do this, then he/she is not the one. The thing is that is not right.
Secrets are important in all kind of relationship, not just love relationship.
No person can just go and say whatever can come in his mind we need filter and
think about what you say before you say it. After all isn’t our mind what differentiate
us from any other species?
Yes, at first you
feel you can say anything to that partner because at first, there is nothing at
stake and more importantly there is nothing that you would say that might hurt
the person in front of you. Most of our talks would be small talks about
everything and nothing at all. But as relationship goes by, things change and
things start to matter and a lot becomes at stake, so we need to take care of
what we say and do.
Maybe if my boyfriend
is talking about his sports and I am not into sports and while I am listening
to him, all I could think about is why do I do this to myself? I would rather
do anything else. Oh yeah, I am just doing this because you are sexy. Or maybe
my ex pass by and all I can think about I have done myself wrong before. I can’t
just go and say all these things out loud because It will just hurt the other
person and no one wishes this to anyone. Or maybe simply because I love him
despite all and I know that he won’t get this, if I said those things, he will
just think that I am not.
So secrets are
important after all and sometimes silence can saves relationship.
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I totally agree you have to keep some mystery in a relationship. But important things have to be shared.
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OF course some things has to be shared.
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You too
DeleteI get you. I agree with all that you said. White lies are not too bad.
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't be ok with a big secret though. It's good to keep certain things to ourselves even in a relationship, and you also keep a lil mystery :)
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You are totally right.
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