“ACT LIKE A PRIZE
AND YOU WILL TURN HIM INTO A BELIEVER”
WHY
MEN LOVE BITCHES is one of the best books I have read ever. If it wasn’t
that I love the four agreements so much, it would definitely got the best self-help
book I have ever read. When the book been first out and there was so much buzz
about it, I thought that it is just a book that wouldn’t add that much value to
my life, but I totally take this back. I think I have learned so much out of
this book and it definitely changed my look of things.
MOST of us women are raised to be nice, because men like
nice women. I have been told that men generally would love someone that would
say yes to whatever he wants because he knows better, to never questions her
husband’s action and be the omega of the pack. The thing is, that I believed
every single word of it, but as I have grew up I have realized that why would I
be the woman he wants me to be and not just myself with my opinion. I have also
realized that only week men with no self-confidence are the one who want a
woman to say yes to everything and make them feel like they are the so strong
and so manly.
Reading this book opened my eyes to a lot of things. It made
me realize that strong men want strong women like them. Strong here means a
woman with her own personality and opinion. Simply the book is talking about
being you, have your own life and have your own opinion. Say it and never be
afraid that he won’t like you, because even if he doesn’t like you, then he is
not good enough for you. The book is talking about that you need to treat yourself
better than you are treating him. That you have to put yourself first and then
put him second. The concept is just so
true, because I believe that you have to love and respect yourself first and
then the man in your life would love and respect you.
What I loved the most about this book is that the author
wrote her advice at the end of the book so you can simply go and check them out
from time to time. I also loved how she showed us example in how to say our
opinion and be in control without being rude, or disrespectful to the other
person. The way she wants us to deal is as I mentioned before is that we
respect ourselves and make him respect that without disrespecting him in any
way.
I highly recommend any woman out there to go and grab her
copy of this book because it will help you a lot in gaining your
self-confidence back.
I would love to thank the best friends ever, who got me this
book as a birthday present. It is really the best gift I have ever received ever.
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